Monday, September 23, 2013

saturday happened, really

no really, saturday did happen... so did sunday, i suppose, as it is now monday morning and i am trying to remember some of what actually did happen then right now... ah yes, now it is coming back to me, slightly... so i shall find an hour or two to catch up as you might see if you head back to read the last half dozen or more entries...

this morning jackson woke and i took her temperature (emotionally speaking) and she was ok until she got a text from sanford (who unfriended her {and me and all of jackson's friends} on facebook over the weekend, which hurt, but still sent her a text this morning {as jackson is trying to forget and get ready for work} to explain that she does not think facebook is a healthy place to have a relationship {yet she has complained that jackson does not "tag" her on facebook when they would go out in the past} and in the same text, she does not want to see what jackson is doing with others posted on facebook... manipulative much?... she's the one ending it and she wants jackson to curl up depressed and not have friends over or heal?... don't get me started, i'm already writing more than i intended to share)...

anyway, after some tension and denial and some harsh words, jackson stopped crying, uncurled, got back out of bed, and took a shower... yay her... se is still defending sanford though, so ok maybe it's not deliberate manipulation, but if you want to end something, stop throwing stones... meanwhile, i continued sitting here and catching up... and while sitting here, she came out to pluck my eyebrows cuz she's been bugged by a few stray hairs and i am starting a new job soon and she cares about me... passive aggressive much? lol...

hey, we all need a little drama in our personal emotional lives, right?... sheesh :)

2 comments:

j said...

awww. endings are so painful. I'm glad Jackson has you there to help, even if it means sacrificing some eyebrows for the cause.

I hope your knee feels better soon. (i think that was in a different post, but i still hope it feels better soon).

candoor said...

as much as i want to say and as much as i feel my senses are right, i could be wrong and must respect privacy... but a vent seemed to come anyway... it's tough to care and just silently want someone hurt... tougher still to be giving so much and watching it continue... still, it is a private life i have no right to write about in my public blog...

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