not always the moment, but always the real?

that is the question, i suppose, as we (we?... ha... no i am not laughing at you, paranoid git... you?... oh come on, be confused on your own time... i'm the only one here) ponder the moment and the real and the title of this blog, the real, thereal, ethereal... could be, but then, why bother defining anything when nobody is listening cuz, after all, definitions are for communication... stop feeling sorry for yourself (or for me, for that matter) and get up, yeah you, get up off your bottom and take a walk, go outside, smile at someone, say hello, start a conversation, ask about the price of eggs in china or whether there is life on other planets or what was the last show, concert, movie, museum, event they really enjoyed... you can do it, even if it does not work the first time, you can do it again and again... if you really want to share and not be alone... in the real.