love libido or leave it

for anyone uncomfortable, shocked, or offended by the allusions to sexual fantasies, liaisons, brief flirtations, or social taboos (at least in this puritanical hypocrisy), oh well... nothing here is meant to offend or upset anyone and while i hope for positive sharing, there's not much i can do about your inhibitions or fears... while i may not mention it daily (no less in every entry), libido is very much part of life as i know it every day... passively in fantasy and actively in physical sensuality... if you don't know by now (new to my babbling?), i do not buy into the fear-based perspective so many in this culture sell and even demand on any level, including sensuality and sexuality...

this entry was inspired by a private inquiry about, of all things, my sexual preferences, orientation, and activities... it was unclear whether the inquiry was motivated by attraction, titillation, or some sort of attempt at judgmental intervention... yes, i enjoy sensuality and sexuality... my preferences are libido fantasies, visually you can find a list of people who stimulate libido to pure mindless sexuality here and while i am seriously visual in my sexuality, voices and all senses stimulate me and ultimately, overall attraction and compatibility in a relationship starts with sense of humor and unique creative intelligence... infinite curiosity is infinitely appealing... i do not understand the fear of nudity and am sad and baffled by the trauma sexuality becomes for so many when it is a self-inflicted trauma most of the time... fear of nudity, sensuality, and sexuality is irrational...

orientation, whatever that is, is sexual... everything can be sensual and/or sexual and i do not rule out people based on gender or any stereotypes... few males stimulate me sexually, but then, few females stimulate me sexually because people, in general, are afraid and fear is not a turn on for me... and the pretense of fearlessness is even more of a turn off... honesty is the core of intimate stimulation for me... innocence, or a genuine intent and attempt to do no harm, is the way to my heart and libido... activities, yes, as much as possible...

you want more specific answers, ask more specific questions... fair? :)